The answer is completely up to you. If you shave too much, your "lips" will get puffy. Aloe Vera, baby oil, or moisturizers designed for sensitive areas can be used. Never use an electric razor with rotating blades in your pubic area. Consider shaving your nether regions. Some may prefer their partners to be completely shaven, and others prefer their partners to be a bit hairy.
Allow at least a few days in between shaves.
Removing Pubic Hair
Shaving upwards doesn't but has consequences. Use a small pair of scissors to make your control over them better. Depilatories will work on your bikini line, but they could leave chemical burns on the sensitive skin next to your sex organs. They are all designed to get the job done. A thin layer of warm liquid wax is applied over the hair you want to remove. Is it normal to shave that area?